We all have read a lot about the law of
attraction and are very well aware of how it can influence our lives. Now let’s
find out what’s the law of acceptance in this blog of mine.
Well….I feel people in our life have a
different nature; different upbringing and different understanding of life. Sometimes
a thing may be quite big and hurtful for us but can’t be the same for others.
We trouble ourselves too much just for the heck of it but the other person is
never going to change for you (no matter what position you hold in their life) .
So just understand ….we should learn to accept the people;their views and opinions.
And we should because
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Nobody is perfect; everyone has
flaws.
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You can’t change anyone.
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It only harms us at the end of
the day.
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We also need to be accepted by
one and all.
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We can’t be judgemental.
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It helps to keep relationship
healthy.
Also… one situation may be
correct for us and it is incorrect for the other…who is the decision makers
here…. US only. What are the pros and cons of all of this… what have we gained;
NOTHING…but lost a number of things…. Many precious moments, our peace of mind,
good health and most importantly a good relationship. Acceptance is about
valuing differences. It’s about being flexible, tolerant and open-minded. It’s
also about knowing how to compromise, understanding that we all make mistakes
and being ready to forgive. Acceptance doesn’t
mean always agreeing with your partner-it’s OK to agree to disagree. Accepting
someone includes appreciating them for who they are and loving them for their
differences.
We can follow a few steps for
becoming more accepting :
# we are not right or
wrong, We are just different.
# Look at your practical
options
# Let go of the things not
meant for you gracefully
# Never try to change the
other person; reevaluate.
# Value relationships more
than your own personal grudge or ego.
I have summed up my views that
I try to imbibe (though a continuous effort) through different phases of life.
Hopefully it works for you all too.
Thank you
Priti Batra
